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✅ "Do you want to wear the blue shirt or the green shirt?"

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Oct 7, 2026 1 views Super Admin

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✅ "Do you want to wear the blue shirt or the green shirt?"

This EthiKidsPlay guide belongs to the MEDIA section, under Give Choices. It is designed as a practical starting point for families exploring this topic together.

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  • You are still setting the boundary, while giving your child some control.
  • 7. 🎯 Focus on the Behavior, Not the Child
  • Correct the behavior without labeling the child.
  • Instead of:
  • ❌ "You're a bad boy."
  • Try:
  • ✅ "Hitting your sister isn't okay. Let's find another way to solve the problem."
  • A child can make a bad choice without being a "bad child."
  • 8. ⏰ Spend One-on-One Time Together
  • You don't need expensive activities to build a strong relationship.
  • Try 10–15 minutes of focused time each day:
  • 🎨 Draw together

More ideas in this section

  • Giving children limited choices can help them develop independence.
  • Instead of:
  • ❌ "Get dressed now!"
  • Try:
  • You are still setting the boundary, while giving your child some control.

Use these ideas as a starting point, adapt them to your family, and consult a qualified professional when personalised advice is needed.

Source: 8 EthiKidsPlay → Parenting.docx.

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