Parenting guide
Article overview
Before correcting your child's behavior, try to understand what they are feeling.
This EthiKidsPlay guide belongs to the MEDIA section, under Connect Before You Correct. It is designed as a practical starting point for families exploring this topic together.
Source notes
- Instead of immediately saying:
- ❌ "Stop crying!"
- Try:
- ✅ "I can see you're upset. Tell me what happened."
- Children are more likely to listen when they feel heard and understood.
- 2. 👂 Listen to Your Child
- Give your child your full attention when they are talking.
- Put down your phone, make eye contact, and listen without immediately judging or interrupting.
- Remember: Listening doesn't mean agreeing with everything your child says. It means showing them that their feelings and thoughts matter.
- 3. ⭐ Praise Good Behavior
- Don't only notice your child when they do something wrong.
- When you see positive behavior, point it out.
More ideas in this section
- Instead of immediately saying:
- ❌ "Stop crying!"
- Try:
- ✅ "I can see you're upset. Tell me what happened."
- Children are more likely to listen when they feel heard and understood.
Use these ideas as a starting point, adapt them to your family, and consult a qualified professional when personalised advice is needed.
Source: 8 EthiKidsPlay → Parenting.docx.
